I admit that I am guilty of showing too little love sometimes. Anyway here’s a recent version of the song.

I still prefer the version by Bananarama, the one with prison setting.

She was irresistibly attracted to you, but as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her.

And could it be that right now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?

To become a challenge again, you need to demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no more control over you.

Think about what it’s like when you’re stalking her with unreturned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about what it’s like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she’s told you to stop.

You’re indicating to the woman that you’re a low-value guy with no other sexual options. She won’t respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you.

1. Do not directly communicate with her.
2. Do not be “friends” with her, as that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a convenient excuse to stay broken up.
3. Keep her locked in with your stuff.  She may even owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back. The best answer to this is “No, not yet.”

The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. Do NOT give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

Are you feeling that your relationship is at its lowest and is beyond repair? Don’t worry, simply use my FGH System to turn your relationship around: forgiveness, good communication, honesty.

I) Forgive your partner

Everything can be forgiven in the name of love. Forgiveness is the biggest part that many people screw up because of pride. Self esteem can blind somebody into a life of empty encounters winding up alone. Start forgiving by following these steps:

1. Express your feelings to the other person. Tell the other person — in non-threatening language — how their actions affected you

2. Talk about the benefits you’ve gotten from a negative situation — rather than focusing on the emotions you have surrounding the event, or talking about something unrelated — can help you to forgive and move on.

II) Good communication is the key to saving a relationship

IF you argue all the time, both of you are not listening to each other at all.  So stop and sit down:

1. Get a coffee, or go to a restaurant. Sit down and talk about the problems in your relationship.

2. Make them realize why you liked each other in the first place.

3. Avoid arguments. There can’t be any communication if you both are just hearing each other’s voices all the time.

III) Honestly tell the person how you really feel

Try to find several different solutions that may help the relationship and ask the other person if they think the solutions would work.

Make sure your partner know that the relationship is at a low point because he or she might feel everything is great when it isn’t.

Here are some tips:

1. Talk about what you need, not what your partner needs to do. When someone is approached “honestly” about their shortcomings and lacks they are likely going to be defensive. Ask your partner how you can get more support from him or her.

2. Identify topics that are off-limits. Some topics are simply too difficult to tackle, especially if they’ve been problematic in your relationship. Find out about what issues shouldn’t be talked. One example is money.

Now apply my FGH system to save your relationship and tell me your success story below!

Are you finding ways to save your relationship? Before you go ahead and search for advice, I suggest you take the following quiz. It analyzes your current relationship and tells you exactly how you should go about saving your relationship.

1. How long is your relationship?

A. Less than 1 year

B. 1-5 years

C. More than 5 years

2. Which of the following best describes the nature of your relationship?

A. Married

B. Living Together

C. Dating

3. How often does communication turn into quarrel?

A. Very often

B. Never

C. Sometimes

4. Do you think that mutual trust exists in your relationship?

A. No

B. I think so

C. Yes

5. If you call your partner more than 3 times a day, how is the response?

A. Your partner answers all calls

B.  Your partner tells you that he is annoyed

C. Your partner answers all calls with appreciation

6. Do you like all the presents your partner has given you?

A. Not all but it’s alright

B. Not all and I will tell him what I don’t like

C. Yes, I love them

7. How often do you give your partner surprises?

A. Never

B. Sometimes

C. Very often

8. How do you rate the level of romance in your relationship?

A. 10%

B. 50%

C. 80%

9. For the past 2 months, did you partner give you a surprise?

A. No

B.  Yes and there are more than 1 surprise

C. Yes

10. Do you feel that you need to or you can save your relationship?

A. I think so

B.  I don’t know how to but I will try

C. Strongly Yes

Now, sum up your scores. If you have selected option A, mark 3 points for it. Option B carries 2 points and Option C carries 1 point.

If you score 15 points or less, then your partner is starting to lose interest in the relationship and you need to sit down with your partner, communicate openly so as to save the relationship. Communication is important and it is not simply a “talking session”. Many a time, people assume that talking is the same as communication.

Scoring between 16 – 24 points indicates that both you and your partner are aware that something’s not right about the relationship but neither of you want to bring it up. At this stage, chances of saving your relationship successfully are the highest. Take action and do the right things to save your relationship now. However, be cautious that a wrong step will also worsen the relationship.

Scoring 25 points and above shows that your partner has lost interest in the relationship, either consciously or subconsciously. This is your last chance to save the relationship and you definitely need to know the exactly right steps to take.

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One of my favorites This song motivates me when things get tough.