When there are misunderstandings and you feel wronged, do you feel frustrated trying to second guess your partner’s thoughts? If so, then you need to save your relationship by discovering what men need most and are most put off by.

According to relationship analyst Shaunti Feldhahn , one’s perception of love differs depending on gender. Women look for love, while men look for respect. That is why you probably find inner qualities like humor, thoughtfulness and self-confidence important in men.

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Analysis indicated that, even though both the body and face ratings were significant,  the face ratings were stronger predictors.

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**Findings are not conclusive and should be treated with caution.

You and your soul mate have an intense work and or home life with all of those demands. You feel the need to save your relationship by overcoming marriage intensity as these 3 lives come together in you precious time together.

‘Marriage intensity’ is a phenomenon that requires people in relationships to identify it and take action to defend against it in order to save their relationships. It is the treadmill of 3 lives concentrated into one relationship.

How do you fight marriage intensity?

The answer is quality, quiet time for your loving relationship. It does not have to be a lot of time but it does need to be frequent and disciplined. Use these 3 simple tips to get started:

1. Talk about the past, the present and the future. Share your ideas, your hopes and your fears. Develop your ideas and make plans for good changes to all parts of your life together.

2. Make the time and the space for both of you to enjoy each other. Get rid of the kids and put up a great big ‘do not disturb’ sign.

3. List down the things that you two enjoy doing, together! It could be walking in the hills or the forest, reading good books to one another, or simply talking about your relationship. It is just like being on a ‘mini date’ as you did when you were getting to know each other.

You cannot save a relationship by doing nothing about marriage intensity. Take some quality and quiet time out every day.

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Does absence make the heart grow fonder? Sometimes a little separation can bring you and your partner closer.

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You may be able to reduce your chances of dying early by finding the right girl.

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** The findings or results are not conclusive and should be treated with caution.

Would you say your relationship is 50-50 give and take ? If it is not, then make the necessary changes to either save your relationship or save your own individuality.

It is impossible to say whether your partnership is definitively equal because it is all about your perception. We can often measure sacrifice towards a relationship in terms of money foregone but that is not really helpful.

1. How do you know if you have given too much?

You will feel growing resentment if your contribution is not acknowledged and appreciated by your partner. Sacrifice of hobbies, interests and emotional ties is inevitable on both sides of a relationship.

Both partners have to work to find ways to relate to one another and grow within that relationship. Unfortunately, many relationships begin in imbalance of sacrifice and continue until the sacrificing partner decides that enough is enough.

2. How much should you and partner give or take?

Well, some people are more inclined to sacrifice than others, while other people are more inclined to take continuously in their self interest.

If you feel you are a giver and you are not being given to in equal measure, you need to save your relationship by raising this fundamental issue with your partner.

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Have you ever wondered why you are attracted to certain people? It could very well be your genes.

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According to scientists, if you want a lasting relationship, marry a better educated woman who is 5 years younger than you.

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** The findings or results are not conclusive and should be treated with caution.