You may be looking for ways to make your ex begging and pleading to want you back. However, how long it takes to be together with your ex depends on why the relationship ended.

If you cannot figure out why your ex left in the first place, see the 4 top reasons that lead to a breakup:

1. Lack of commitment

There was lack of commitment in your failed relationship. To commit to a relationship does not mean that you have to propose marriage, walk down the aisle, or move in with your partner.

To commit means talking about and planning the future with your partner, telling your partner about your hopes and dreams. These are ways to show commitment in your relationship.

2. Violence

Violence in any relationship is wrong. Why would anyone want to spend his or her life with someone who beats them?

If you are in a violent relationship, I urge you to get out now!

Do not believe your ex, who was violent towards you, when they say that they have turned over a new leaf. Forget about him or her and move on.

Read the other 2 top reasons here => Top 4 Reasons For a Breakup

Men, women, boys and girls who have broken up with their partners always ask this question: “How can I get my ex back?”

And the first thing that I reply to them is “Why do you want them back?”

That may seem like a cold response to a desperate plea for help, but when you get down to the details, there was at least one problem in the relationship that eventually led to both of you going your separate ways.

Why Do You Want Your Ex Back?

If your relationship did not work the first time, what makes you think it would work out the second time?

To win your ex back you must find out what led to the break up in the first place and work from there. Click the link to read more

=> Why Do You Want Your Ex Back?