Many people are confused about the answer to the question what is true intimacy? A majority of people believe that true intimacy is unlikely in a relationship that is open.

If you do not care for monogamy, fidelity as well as loyalty with one special individual you will not be able to feel abiding, deep and true connection. Such people will find it difficult to surrender to the feelings of wholehearted openness and utter abandon which is what true intimacy is all about.

If you do not like exclusivity you will never be able to experience how it feels like to be wonderful, forget being consummately so. If you do not feel comfortable, safe and at ease with your partner that will allow you to be vulnerable you will never be able to experience unabashed ecstasy, sexually, spiritually, ultimately.

You might find the sex good. You might enjoy the act but you will never find out how good it can really get if you haven’t experienced sex with all your heart, the type of deep heart that only true intimacy can bring about.

What is true intimacy? One will only be able to discover this, unveil and experience it when one has taken the time with understand one’s partner and to care to really know and feel one another, unabashedly, openly, intimately with no holds barred.

You could spread yourself as well as your love around. It would feel great. You would feel as if you were making place for even more love. But what you would actually be doing is just spreading it.

It is not that love is a small quantity and there will not be much of it to spread. It is not like that but true intimacy can be actually felt it is at the center of your being and results in an inner intensity that one can experience through a bond between two people who are really in love.

Imagine how it would be to feel safe and full of trust for that one special person to whom you can bear everything completely, spirit, heart as well as body. You could let yourself go, be completely vulnerable when you are in the presence of your loved one whom you completely adore and who completely adores and loves you too.

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When you tried to initiate intimacy, your ex girlfriend probably rejected you 95% of the time, using the excuse that she was too tired or made comments like “all you want is sex”. You talked to her nicely about it but got nowhere.

Then the breakup happened… It seems like your ex girlfriend is not interested in you anymore.

It’s time to do some soul searching. When your ex and you were together, did you take her for granted, only to show real interest in her sexually?

In other words, were you sincere, honest or loving only when you wanted to be intimate with your ex?  This could have resulted in lack of intimacy in your relationship because your ex realized that your “attention” and “niceness” were insincere and hypocritical.

Over time, both of you were getting along less and less fine…until she decided to give up on the relationship. No matter how much you said and how hard you explained, she simply told you that she doesn’t love you anymore. She probably wants to find someone else who can give her what she wants…

If you want to get her back, the key is to cultivate the right kind of intimacy. Physical affection may look a lot like women’s kind of intimacy on the surface, but it is not.

To deal with women’s lack of intimacy, you must be able to express your strengths and weaknesses to your ex girlfriend. This is because true intimacy allows both of you to be yourselves. It builds up as you listen to and share each other’s pains, needs and desires.

When you experience true intimacy, you will have no doubts as to whether your other half loves you for you and vice versa.

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