You and your soul mate have an intense work and or home life with all of those demands. You feel the need to save your relationship by overcoming marriage intensity as these 3 lives come together in you precious time together.

‘Marriage intensity’ is a phenomenon that requires people in relationships to identify it and take action to defend against it in order to save their relationships. It is the treadmill of 3 lives concentrated into one relationship.

How do you fight marriage intensity?

The answer is quality, quiet time for your loving relationship. It does not have to be a lot of time but it does need to be frequent and disciplined. Use these 3 simple tips to get started:

1. Talk about the past, the present and the future. Share your ideas, your hopes and your fears. Develop your ideas and make plans for good changes to all parts of your life together.

2. Make the time and the space for both of you to enjoy each other. Get rid of the kids and put up a great big ‘do not disturb’ sign.

3. List down the things that you two enjoy doing, together! It could be walking in the hills or the forest, reading good books to one another, or simply talking about your relationship. It is just like being on a ‘mini date’ as you did when you were getting to know each other.

You cannot save a relationship by doing nothing about marriage intensity. Take some quality and quiet time out every day.

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Would you say your relationship is 50-50 give and take ? If it is not, then make the necessary changes to either save your relationship or save your own individuality.

It is impossible to say whether your partnership is definitively equal because it is all about your perception. We can often measure sacrifice towards a relationship in terms of money foregone but that is not really helpful.

1. How do you know if you have given too much?

You will feel growing resentment if your contribution is not acknowledged and appreciated by your partner. Sacrifice of hobbies, interests and emotional ties is inevitable on both sides of a relationship.

Both partners have to work to find ways to relate to one another and grow within that relationship. Unfortunately, many relationships begin in imbalance of sacrifice and continue until the sacrificing partner decides that enough is enough.

2. How much should you and partner give or take?

Well, some people are more inclined to sacrifice than others, while other people are more inclined to take continuously in their self interest.

If you feel you are a giver and you are not being given to in equal measure, you need to save your relationship by raising this fundamental issue with your partner.

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I admit that I am guilty of showing too little love sometimes. Anyway here’s a recent version of the song.

I still prefer the version by Bananarama, the one with prison setting.

She was irresistibly attracted to you, but as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her.

And could it be that right now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?

To become a challenge again, you need to demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no more control over you.

Think about what it’s like when you’re stalking her with unreturned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about what it’s like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she’s told you to stop.

You’re indicating to the woman that you’re a low-value guy with no other sexual options. She won’t respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you.

1. Do not directly communicate with her.
2. Do not be “friends” with her, as that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a convenient excuse to stay broken up.
3. Keep her locked in with your stuff.  She may even owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back. The best answer to this is “No, not yet.”

The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. Do NOT give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.