When there are misunderstandings and you feel wronged, do you feel frustrated trying to second guess your partner’s thoughts? If so, then you need to save your relationship by discovering what men need most and are most put off by.

According to relationship analyst Shaunti Feldhahn , one’s perception of love differs depending on gender. Women look for love, while men look for respect. That is why you probably find inner qualities like humor, thoughtfulness and self-confidence important in men.

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